She has been so strong about this and is keen to put it all behind her. Usually the reality sinks in as time passes by and we are then often able to deal with it more gradually. This could be his way of protecting himself from the hard reality of your mum being ill. I assume from your message that your mum is ill from cancer and is in a hospital or maybe a hospice for treatment and care. I don't know if your mum is very ill and that may have an impact on how your brother will feel later on. Denial is one form of these defence mechanisms and can make us slightly num and make us think that something bad is not happening and thereby keep the reality away from us, usually just for a while. He may not even know why he doesn't want to visit her. I ended up failing my classes, not caring about school, and getting into fights.
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